Open Relationships Through the Generations
Relationships in the United States are evolving. Consensual non-monogamy — which can include swinging, polyamory, open marriage, and other arrangements — is becoming more visible and accepted across age groups. A recent Pew study found that about half of adults aged 18–29 consider open marriages acceptable. Meanwhile, technology has made dating easier: roughly 53% of Americans under 30 have used an online dating site or app. These shifts are shaping how different generations approach love, commitment, and connection.
Generation X (born ~1965–1980)
Generation X grew up during a period of more traditional relationship norms. Historically, open relationships were less common for this group — only about 7% report having been in a polyamorous relationship. However, data suggests that interest in swinging is growing, with people in their 40s–49s making up nearly 40% of active participants.
Gen X was also among the first to adopt online dating, with around 37% of those aged 30–49 having tried dating apps. For many in this generation, privacy and trust remain key concerns. Tools that allow verified profiles, private galleries, and controlled access to personal content can make exploring alternative relationship structures feel safer and more comfortable.
Millennials (born ~1981–1996)
Millennials are often seen as shaping the modern dating landscape. They are comfortable with technology and are frequent users of dating apps — over half of Americans under 30 report having used one, and usage remains high into the early 30s.
This generation is also more open to diverse relationship models. Surveys show that about 49% view non-monogamous relationships as an ideal option, and roughly 41% say they would consider polyamory. Many Millennials value flexibility, autonomy, and shared experiences, and they often seek platforms that support varied relationship preferences. Features like shared profiles for couples or tools to connect with others who share specific interests can make exploring non-monogamy more accessible.
Generation Z (born ~1997–2007)
As the most digitally native generation, Gen Z has grown up with smartphones and apps as part of everyday life. Dating apps are widely used — over half of those under 30 have tried one.
Gen Z’s attitudes toward relationships are mixed. Research suggests a strong interest in monogamy — with 81% expressing a preference for it — though curiosity about non-monogamy persists. About 19% of Gen Z adults have tried polyamory, and 29% say they would consider it. Younger queer adults are often especially open to these arrangements.
Inclusivity and privacy are central for Gen Z. They value spaces where different identities and orientations are respected and where they can control their personal visibility online. Tools such as private galleries and profile verification address these concerns and help users engage on their own terms.
All Generations – Why Ysos Works for Everyone
Across generations, more people are exploring open relationships, swinging, and polyamory. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just starting to explore, Ysos makes it easy to find your community.
Ysos was designed for everyone. Single or partnered, straight or LGBTQ+, young or older — the app welcomes it all. It’s more than just a dating tool: it’s a safe, private, and open space where people can meet, explore, and connect.
With features like phone verification to prevent fake profiles, customizable interest filters, and privacy controls such as hidden photo galleries and profile PIN locks, Ysos gives every user the confidence to explore their desires at their own pace. These tools appeal to a wide range of users — from privacy-conscious Gen Xers to adventurous Millennials and curious Gen Zers.
And it’s not just about online connection. Ysos brings people together offline too, through events and parties that foster community and connection. It’s a place where curiosity is welcomed, boundaries are respected, and everyone can feel at home.
Whatever your generation, Ysos offers a modern, secure, and open approach to non-monogamy. That’s why it’s quickly becoming the go-to app for those exploring swinging and polyamory in the U.S. — and why it works for everyone.
