Jealousy: how to deal with it in the liberal and swing lifestyle?
Experience and time as a single in the liberal environment helps mature men deal with jealousy of beginner couples.
The ysos team had a chat with the user @umzeka, who uses ysos to arrange dates with couples and he told us a little about his perception of jealousy in the liberal world.
Jealousy and Couples
1. IS THERE ANY PERSPECTIVE IN WHICH JEALOUS IS BENEFICIAL IN A RELATIONSHIP?
None, in any kind.
2. COUPLES WHO FEEL JEALOUS CAN GET DOWN WELL IN THE LIBERAL ENVIRONMENT?
No. According to several scientific studies, jealousy has been interpreted as a mental imbalance, causing harmful effects even for cognitive development.
Faced with such a foundation, somehow, jealousy will sharply harm the discoveries and projections of the couple within the scope of Fantasies.
3. HOW TO DEAL IF THE PARTNER PRESENTS JEALOUS BEHAVIOR IN SWING'S HOUSES?
Faced with whatever the level of behavior as a result of jealousy, the most important thing is to talk and leave, there is no other alternative.
4. IS DEFINING RULES A TIP THAT HELPS JEALOUS PEOPLE TO RELAX AND HAVE MORE PLEASANT EXPERIENCES WHEN STARTING ACTIVITIES IN THE LIBERAL ENVIRONMENT OR BEFORE GOING IN SWING'S HOUSES?
I don't like the term “rules”, but it is extremely crucial that the couple talk a lot, including the details, expelling any kind of doubt.
It is important that each one opens themselves up to the fullness of their interests and wishes, and becomes very comfortable, in desires, with great security for each one decisions.
Complicity, partnership and sharing the vibe are strong pillars in the couple.
Jealousy: How to Deal with it?
5. HAVE YOU EVER DONE WITH A COUPLE WHO HAD TO DEAL WITH THE JEALOUS FACTOR DURING SEX? HOW IT WAS?
No, all the couples I've experienced have beautiful moments, jealousy has not been there.
All couples, besides being determined, were characterized by maturity and a strong will to live.
6. ANY TIPS FOR SINGLES WHO GO OUT WITH COUPLES AND NEED TO DEAL WITH JEALOUSY MOMENTS?
The tip is that the “Single” preserves the couple in every aspect.
In any case, stop, step aside, and if the situation allows it, do good sensibly so that they get back in tune.
Another tip, which by the way, I think is extremely necessary is that the “Single” also needs to do a certain behavioral reading of the couple.
This helps you to feel that they are in fact well and decided.
7. IS THERE A REPEAT WITH A COUPLE THAT IS JEALOUS?
If there's any risk of a jealousy behavior, don't. (lol)
8. WHAT KIND OF BEHAVIORS DOES AN EXPERIENCED SINGLE AVOID WITH THE OBJECTIVE OF NOT AWAKENING JEALOUS AND MISS CONFIDENCE WHEN GOING OUT WITH AN INEXPERIENCED COUPLE?
In short, applying some filters, I can say a little bit about what I like to do. A good conversation, about life, about their virtues, desires, life projects.
I love giving the couple relevance and prominence, making them feel too good, equivalent, promoting values that were hidden between them, and that's wonderful, the results are always great.
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And you, do you have any interesting stories related to jealousy? Tell us in the comments!
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