Are you curious about swinging but feel held back by fear, anxiety, or insecurity? You’re not alone. Many couples feel excitement mixed with worry: “What if jealousy ruins everything?”, “What if we regret it?”, “What if it changes our relationship…
Relationship Anarchy: What Is It and How to Love Without Hierarchies?
In ethical non-monogamous relationships, few concepts are as liberating and radical as Relationship Anarchy (often called RA). Instead of following pre-packaged rules from monogamy or even common polyamory structures, Relationship Anarchy proposes that every connection be built from scratch, based…
Bulls in Swinging: What is the role of the Chosen Man?
Ah, the Bull… the guy is magnetic. In the lifestyle and swing universe, being a bull means occupying a central role in a fantasy for three. Basically, he is the man invited to have sex with the couple’s partner, and…
The Truth About Swinging (No Judgment Required)
For a long time, swinging has been surrounded by myths, judgment, and outdated assumptions. Many of these ideas come from BS, misinformation, fear of the unknown, or cultural taboos that no longer reflect how people actually live and relate today….
They Said: New Rules for the Lifestyle in 2026
Non‑monogamy is blossoming into a mainstream social trend. Recent surveys show that roughly 2.35% of American adults (about 1.5 million people) identify as active swingers. Similarly, one major dating survey found 31% of singles have tried an open or non‑monogamous…
Feeling open-minded, man?
Embracing open-mindedness means being willing to try new ideas and perspectives. Psychologists define open-mindedness as the willingness to actively consider evidence against your own beliefs, which helps you stay curious instead of stuck in old habits. Being open-minded doesn’t mean…