She sinks into her mattress, hugging the pillows close, tears blurring her vision in the dim light of her bedroom. The house is quiet around her. Her husband has already left for the night. Again. She knows exactly where he…
We’re into you! How Brazil and the USA Connect
In both the United States and Brazil, open-relationship communities stress honesty, consent, and respect as foundational values. Whether couples are exploring swingers’ clubs or polyamorous dating, clear communication is key. Brazilians and Americans alike value setting firm boundaries and being…
Swinger Event Etiquette: Key Tips for Respect and Fun
Swinger events often mix socializing, dancing, and intimate play in a safe, welcoming space. These gatherings have unspoken rules and manners to keep everyone comfortable. Whether you’re new or a veteran, following the basics of swinger event etiquette makes the…
All We Need is Bear
Jake and Ben’s hearts pounded as they waited in their bedroom, the anticipation melting them with heat. They’d been messaging back and forth on Ysos all week, fantasizing about finding the perfect bear to join their bed. The dark-haired man on…
Swinging and Polyamory: Cultural Perspectives in Latin America and the U.S.
Swinging and polyamory are both forms of consensual non-monogamy, but they have different emphases. Swinging (often called “couple swapping”) focuses on multiple sexual partners while maintaining a core romantic couple relationship. Polyamory, on the other hand, involves multiple simultaneous romantic…
Open Relationships Through the Generations
Relationships in the United States are evolving. Consensual non-monogamy — which can include swinging, polyamory, open marriage, and other arrangements — is becoming more visible and accepted across age groups. A recent Pew study found that about half of adults…