Are you curious about swinging but feel held back by fear, anxiety, or insecurity? You’re not alone. Many couples feel excitement mixed with worry: “What if jealousy ruins everything?”, “What if we regret it?”, “What if it changes our relationship…
Story: When Nobody Belonged to Anyone
It was a hot March night in Recife, Brazil. The room was dark, lit only by low red lights and a few candles. The air smelled of incense, wine, and the growing scent of lust. The five of us had…
Relationship Anarchy: What Is It and How to Love Without Hierarchies?
In ethical non-monogamous relationships, few concepts are as liberating and radical as Relationship Anarchy (often called RA). Instead of following pre-packaged rules from monogamy or even common polyamory structures, Relationship Anarchy proposes that every connection be built from scratch, based…
Story: The Other Side
Have you read Anna’s story, “Confessions of a Unicorn”? If not, click here to check it out: Confessions of a Unicorn. She told everything from the unicorn’s perspective: the mind-blowing nights and the ones where the chemistry just wasn’t there….
Unicorn Hunting: What Is This Dynamic All About?
In the world of non-monogamous relationships, “Unicorn Hunting” describes a very specific and common dynamic: a couple (usually a man and a woman) actively looking for a third person to connect with both of them, romantically and/or sexually. The nickname…
Story: The Bound Circle of Polyfidelity
The four of us had settled everything during a night of wine and a conversation that went on far too long, just among ourselves. A throuple turning into a foursome, later sealed with that one rule that made the blood…