Pandemonium Episode:
Hi, I’m Mayumi, and I’m here to guide you through the world of swinger parties, sex-positive events, and fetish clubs around the world. From what to wear to what to expect inside, I’ll tell you everything you need to know.
I’ve traveled the world exploring sex-positive events and swinger clubs to understand what makes each experience unique. And I’ve done it all thanks to Ysos, the dating app that connects open-minded singles and couples who want to explore their fantasies and have fun without judgment. Download Ysos now:
Pandemonium is one of the most exciting fetish parties in Barcelona. It takes place in a two-floor venue that mixes techno, fetish, and erotic performances.
Like any well-organized fetish party, Pandemonium has a strict dress code. If you don’t follow the rules, you won’t get in—simple as that. You need to be dressed in either a techno-inspired look, with lots of black, leather, and an industrial vibe, in fetishwear like latex, harnesses, or BDSM gear, or in lingerie if you prefer a more sensual style.
Beyond the dress code, the party has clear rules. No means no. You can’t touch or engage with someone without explicit consent.
Phones are forbidden in intimate areas, so no photos or videos are allowed.
To ensure everyone is on the same page, you’ll receive a wristband at the entrance that shows your intentions for the night. A blue wristband means you’re open to interactions and looking for a more intimate experience, while a red wristband means you just want to enjoy the party without physical involvement.
Have you ever felt uncomfortable at a club or festival, always on guard against people flirting with you in a more inappropriate way?
Well, Pandemonium is different. Here, everyone asks first—whether to start a conversation, dance together, or take things further. And if you only want to enjoy the music and dance until sunrise, no one will push your boundaries.
The venue is split into two floors, each offering a different experience.
Upstairs, you’ll find the bar, live performances, and the dance floor. This is the more social part of the party, where people meet, grab drinks, and get a feel for the vibe before deciding whether to explore downstairs.
And there is where things get more intense. The lower level is a small maze with multiple playrooms. Some are private, while others are open for exhibitionists or those who enjoy group interactions. You can leave the door open, inviting others to watch or join or keep it closed for a more private experience.
One thing that makes Pandemonium stand out from traditional swinger clubs or other fetish parties is the balance between participants. In many swinger clubs, men are often fully dressed while women walk around in lingerie. The dress code levels the playing field there, creating an atmosphere where everyone is part of the experience, not just spectators.
The energy at Pandemonium is different from traditional swinger events. The organizers constantly reinforce the importance of consent, the dress code helps set the mood, and the crowd is younger and more alternative. If you love electronic music, BDSM, and erotic performances, you’ll love this place.
Many first-time visitors are surprised by how much respect there is among attendees. Even if you’ve never been to a fetish event before, Pandemonium is a great place to start. Everything is allowed, but nothing is mandatory.
If you’re planning a trip to Barcelona and have an interest in the fetish scene, I highly recommend checking out this party. You can follow their Instagram for updates—I’ll leave the link in the description.
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This was my review of Pandemonium in Barcelona, part of my global series on sex-positive events and destinations. If you enjoyed it, stay tuned for the next episodes.
See you next time!